Learning what other people think of you

In the past few weeks, all sorts of people who are connected to a close friend of mine agreed to help me celebrate her milestone birthday tomorrow, March 14.

Each of them provided me with a word to describe her. Their entries are now compiled into the word cloud below to honour the birthday girl and help her mark the occasion of her 40th birthday.

She is humble, so her reaction to the words was exactly what I'd hoped would happen. She seemed genuinely surprised to know that her family, friends and colleagues think so highly of her and describe her in such amazing terms.

All too often, we only speak up when something isn't going quite right or when we have something negative to say. Sure, it's easy to take for granted all that is good, but how much fun is it when someone voices how they feel about you in a positive way? In this case, the project itself wasn't the end result.

Based on the birthday girl's reaction, it seems that learning what others think of you is AWESOME!

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